Taking Back Your Power

Our personal power is one of the most precious gifts we possess. When we learn to harness it, we open the door to greater fulfilment and success. However, we often give this power away without even realizing it, leading to feelings of defeat and self-doubt. So, let’s explore what might be siphoning our personal power and how we can reclaim it.

Every day, we encounter various interactions—whether with family, co-workers, friends, or even through social media. Each of these interactions can leave a lasting impact, affecting our emotions in positive, negative, or neutral ways. Too often, we rush through our days, unaware of the lingering feelings we carry, especially the negative ones. It’s those “sticky” situations that can drain our power the most.

Consider this: Have you ever dealt with a bullying co-worker? Or have you found yourself comparing your achievements to someone else’s highlight reel online? Perhaps you’ve experienced a friend’s underhanded comments or felt taken advantage of by a family member. Each of these scenarios can lead to feelings of inadequacy or self-doubt, making us believe we’ve done something wrong. But when we challenge our thoughts, we often realize it’s not about us at all; it’s the other person’s insecurities or our own fears trying to protect us from failure.

So, how do we take our power back?

1. Speak Up: When you’re treated poorly, don’t hesitate to express how it makes you feel. Setting boundaries is a crucial step in reclaiming your power.

2. Limit Social Media Exposure: If scrolling through feeds makes you feel anxious or inadequate, take a break. Protecting your mental space is essential for maintaining your sense of self-worth.

3. Face Your Fears: Acknowledge the fear that comes with stepping out of your comfort zone, but don’t let it paralyze you. Embrace the courage to try new things despite the fear. 

4. Reflect and Reframe: When negative feelings arise, take a moment to reflect. Ask yourself what you can learn from the situation and how it may not be a reflection of your worth.

Remember, you are powerful, and you have the right to use that power in ways that serve you best. It’s time to reclaim what’s yours and step into the life you truly want. Embrace your strength, and let it guide you toward fulfilment and success. You’ve got this!

Katherine Heatley, CLC

Empowerment Coach